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  Survey and how to pleasure an intact male I'm very sorry for not writing for a long time. I've only the classical explanations; high workload, exhaustion, lack of time. And sorry for not answering your emails. But I'll read them all, I promise. Thank you for answering to the survey! I've got some valuable information. Initially this blog was meant for women but now I know that most of the readers are straight males. I was surprised how much young people are searching for basic educational content so I must keep this in mind. In the survey within the couple of first weeks most of the respondents (4 out of 5) were under the age of 18, obviously searching for easily accessible low-threshold sexual education. After all 25 % were 10-17 year-olds and more than 50 % 18-26 year-olds, so this is my main audience. Majority of the answerers accept my blog to 14 year-olds or younger. By the way, have you noticed that there's no more a warning flag saying that this content is
New posts to this blog? I haven't been writing here for a long time. It's because I've very limited time to do it and my other blog has been much more popular. But I still get requests every now and then to update this blog and there is a bunch of readers. I made a survey for this blog to map out who are reading this and if there are topic suggestions I could write about. One reader asked if I could write about how to pleasure an intact man. I might write about this in the near future (I hope). But please, answer the survey! It's important that you all answer it honestly regardless of your age or sex etc., so that I get reliable and comprehensive results. Then I'm a bit wiser and more motivated to post here :)
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More about masturbation and floor to readers Wet labia of a 29-year-old-female Female masturbation is one of the sweetest and cutest things on earth to watch. Close your eyes and imagine. Shaved genitalia, moist labia and a finger sliding slowly on the labia and then between the labia, occasionally dipping into the vagina and then rubbing the clitoris. Every now and then the labia are spread to reveal the wet inner parts of the vulva, the labia minora, the clitoris and the vaginal opening. Imagine, how this feels, or do it for real or ask your partner to do this. Watch from a mirror or a video, when you do this. Or show this to your friend or a partner, or do it together. It feels good but it also looks good. You can learn to find it beautiful and arousing if you don't feel that way already. You shouldn't be ashamed of masturbation, other people already know that you probably are doing it, you can talk about it with most of your friends. A female fingering her anus.
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Behavioral and mental aspects Wikipe-tan, licenced under CC, author: SunnuChow Earlier I've written about self-knowledge, self-esteem and self-confidence. Now I concentrate on mental features that secondarily affect on female sexuality. Your behavior and attitude to your partner affects hugely on his/her behavior and sexual motivation towards you which in turn affects on your own sexuality. The partner is like a mirror that reflects the bad attitude or behavior transformed into a decreased sex drive. The seed of a vicious circle is easily planted. Personally I'm not particularly interested in externally pretty and attractive women any more at this age, I prefer internal beauty. At young age, when the sex hormones go through the roof, outer virtues are overrated. With age the inner beauty becomes more and more important. If someone is joyful, kind and gentle to me and treats me respectfully I become more likely fascinated of her and I more easily show my feelings whic
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Female sexuality, self-confidence, masturbation and sexuality beyond gender Licensed under CC, author: Lisa Takarai I've noticed that most of my readers are males, which is totally fine per se, but I hope that this blog becomes more popular among younger females, I say here things that would be of most benefit for them. I hope it's not an obstacle to read this blog that I'm a male and not especially young either. Keys to a better sex and sexual pleasure are a good self-confidence and practise. You should know thoroughly your body and you must learn to know how it functions. Your body is like a physical tool or an instrument that you must learn to use or play in order to get the most pleasure it can give. This is valid regardless of your gender. In my last post I encouraged to watch for a while female genitalia to notice their beauty and to become acquainted with them. Now it's time to get over your sexual shyness and watch your own genitalia. Licensed un
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Introduction Female cameltoe (Original image: CC-license, author Calvin Chan) I've been writing about male sexuality leaning on my own body, its anatomy and functions and my own experiences. I've had also an educational point of view. I'm wondering if there's need for a blog that is about female sexuality from a male's point of view, and of course there would be educational aspects too. I hope this would give some new perspectives to females into their sexuality and sexual self-esteem and be educational for sexually unexperienced males too. I don't have many, if any, videos of my own in this area but I've some images and I can use images and videos under Creative Commons (CC) licence if I find suitable ones. At first I would like to raise females' sexual self-esteem and advice males towards a more respectful attitude to females' sexuality. I respect females enormously and I want that nobody who reads my blogs will never ever offend or abu