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Wet labia of a 29-year-old-female

Female masturbation is one of the sweetest and cutest things on earth to watch. Close your eyes and imagine. Shaved genitalia, moist labia and a finger sliding slowly on the labia and then between the labia, occasionally dipping into the vagina and then rubbing the clitoris. Every now and then the labia are spread to reveal the wet inner parts of the vulva, the labia minora, the clitoris and the vaginal opening. Imagine, how this feels, or do it for real or ask your partner to do this. Watch from a mirror or a video, when you do this. Or show this to your friend or a partner, or do it together. It feels good but it also looks good. You can learn to find it beautiful and arousing if you don't feel that way already. You shouldn't be ashamed of masturbation, other people already know that you probably are doing it, you can talk about it with most of your friends.

A female fingering her anus.
Licensed under CC, author: Cresedou

Masturbation helps us to keep our bodies in good shape, it relieves stress, it improves our mood, it lowers the blood pressure. It helps us to learn our bodies and increases pleasure and satisfaction when we are having sex with a partner. You can increase your self-esteem by masturbating in a public place or in front of your partner or a friend or by uploading a video or an image on the Internet (or sending it to me). If a female would ask me to watch her masturbating I wouldn't consider her strange in anyway, it would be just humane to do that and a sign of confidence. I know that everyone reacts differently and that males are more open to this kind of suggestions. Younger generations are more open and open-minded in this area as well. But whatever you do, do it sensitively and minimize the risk of offending others. And finally, the masturbation is the cheapest and easiest way to achieve pleasure, you don't need to go far away to search for hedonistic experiences.

Vaginal masturbation with a flashlight.
Licensed under CC, author Elmo Love

I'm not going to give you any specific pieces of advice in masturbation because you know your body best and you should find your own gimmicks, and finally, because I'm a boy. When you know what's best for you, you can ask your partner to do the same things to you. But don't stuck on stimulating only your clitoris or your vagina, try other areas as well.

Me stimulating the clitoris of a 29-year-old female

And because I'm a boy, I can later give you some hints how to handle a male if you are unexperienced with them. It'll reduce your initial anxiety and thus support your own sexuality.

A female inserting a vibrator into her anus.
Licensed under CC, author Elmo Love.

PLEASE, SHARE YOUR OWN MASTURBATION HINTS AND GIMMICKS TO OTHERS!

What was the most exciting place to do it, how you like to do it, do you use any toys or household items, at what age you started it, do you discuss it with your friends/parents etc., how often you do it and so on...